Ardo Zubairu
09-07-2005, 06:12 PM
The society we live in today is full of memorable developments and as each day passes by things to be taking new dimensions entirely. Change they say is the law of nature that is what is taking place today. Some of these stories, when told, may seem too many as mire fiction and unbelievable. But they are true happenings in our midst these days. Some people never want to talk about such because they are either deeply involved in such practices or see nothing wrong in doing them hence such do not make ways to them.
A common character of both man and society we live in is that of competition of man always trying to put himself in a better position and struggling to enjoy the best of this world before he die. Yet another side of the competition is that which seems to be taking place among our girls with their married colleagues as regards who should own the man. Ordinarily, the man belongs to the woman he is married to. But alas, the reality today seems different.
You see, what the law of nature and the common law of the land condemns is what man seems to delight in doing .our girls are confidently going into the evil practice of overthrowing, so to say, women from their matrimonial homes and taking possession of their husbands. Have read the story of managing director whom, as a result of making love with his personal secretary in the office, had to divorce his wife with whom they had been together for twenty five years?
It is common to hear men refer to girls as “bush meat” these days. And the girls in turn call the men “big fish”. The hard times have left the girls with no choice. Anyway man who comes their way. But preferably the one who has some money on him and food at home would do for them, you see if these were restricted to unmarried young men alone, there would have been no cause of alarmed. But it becomes problematic when while the wife is anxious at home waiting for her husband to return another lady is busy sucking the best out of him in a hotel.
But who to blame in this case? The girl who is out for brisk business or the man who has shamelessly forgotten about his family responsibilities and instead goes about giving the best of himself to a girlfriend? But the rate at which this type of game is rapidly gaining ground and the staunch determination of the girls to succeed and ruin the men is a major cause for concern. Some of them do not even mind coming home with the men in the presence of their wives.
One cannot pretend to be ignorant of the fact that our girls are today extremely money conscious. Neither is one fooled in the belief that they are the salt of our society. The fact is that in whatever form they come, their practices are greatly ruining the good spirit behind many a matrimonial home. In what might seem like an example of what I am talking about, take a walk at about 6:50pm to any of the major hotels in town and see for the long queues of girls who line our streets waiting for any of the “big fish”. Not necessary with flashy car, to come along and pick them.
In those days, a man when married, no girls comes close to you and you regarded as a “sugar daddy” but today the girls have changed their attitudes toward married men. What ever the reason for this sudden change. It might not be unconnected with the hard times we are presently experiencing that leave no room for choice. But the men had forgotten that they even spend more on these girls than they do on their families. But there are even some women who have, in relations for what their husbands do. Taken to chasing other men too.
The language of friendship between any man and woman today is money. Hardly can a man stay with girl from morning to evening without hearing one complain or the other which all boil down to money.
There is a trick our girls use these days that our married women may want know about most of the ‘oga’ prefers bridging their girl friends into their offices and such would pretend waiting to see ‘oga” for serious very business matters but on entering the office, they (girls) would take a corner seat. Then, no one can actually determine what her relationship is with the oga.
For too long now they have cases of who have some men subjected their families to severe hunger by not proving food for the family yet they would go about dishing out money to their girlfriends out the family. And the girls are always determined to eat, drink and wear the “best of every good thing’ leaving the man with smiles on his face and pride instead of being ashamed.
Let us pause and think a while. You will agree with me that girls , especially those that have made up their minds not to marry but to continued to suck the man that comes their way, are planning wars to overthrow the women and bring every woman to useless position like their own. They can be very nasty. They can easily grab you by the collar of your shirt and before you know it. You are in pool of blood from broken bottles. While the women folk are struggling to make sure that they are recognized in the scheme of things in our society, they have totally forgotten that when its comes to families issues. They fare the weakest set of human beings anyone can think of at least for those of them who practice these sorts of atrocities. Any woman who sells herself for a living is abusing the dignity and integrity of man, devoid of any sentiments, the bone of contention is unruly behaviors of our girls to married colleagues.
There is no justification or pride in girl confidently going out with another woman’s husband or the pride on a man abandoning his family for some other woman. In a nutshell, the girls are today ceaselessly struggling and struggling to distract the attention of men away from families. And they seem to be winning.
A common character of both man and society we live in is that of competition of man always trying to put himself in a better position and struggling to enjoy the best of this world before he die. Yet another side of the competition is that which seems to be taking place among our girls with their married colleagues as regards who should own the man. Ordinarily, the man belongs to the woman he is married to. But alas, the reality today seems different.
You see, what the law of nature and the common law of the land condemns is what man seems to delight in doing .our girls are confidently going into the evil practice of overthrowing, so to say, women from their matrimonial homes and taking possession of their husbands. Have read the story of managing director whom, as a result of making love with his personal secretary in the office, had to divorce his wife with whom they had been together for twenty five years?
It is common to hear men refer to girls as “bush meat” these days. And the girls in turn call the men “big fish”. The hard times have left the girls with no choice. Anyway man who comes their way. But preferably the one who has some money on him and food at home would do for them, you see if these were restricted to unmarried young men alone, there would have been no cause of alarmed. But it becomes problematic when while the wife is anxious at home waiting for her husband to return another lady is busy sucking the best out of him in a hotel.
But who to blame in this case? The girl who is out for brisk business or the man who has shamelessly forgotten about his family responsibilities and instead goes about giving the best of himself to a girlfriend? But the rate at which this type of game is rapidly gaining ground and the staunch determination of the girls to succeed and ruin the men is a major cause for concern. Some of them do not even mind coming home with the men in the presence of their wives.
One cannot pretend to be ignorant of the fact that our girls are today extremely money conscious. Neither is one fooled in the belief that they are the salt of our society. The fact is that in whatever form they come, their practices are greatly ruining the good spirit behind many a matrimonial home. In what might seem like an example of what I am talking about, take a walk at about 6:50pm to any of the major hotels in town and see for the long queues of girls who line our streets waiting for any of the “big fish”. Not necessary with flashy car, to come along and pick them.
In those days, a man when married, no girls comes close to you and you regarded as a “sugar daddy” but today the girls have changed their attitudes toward married men. What ever the reason for this sudden change. It might not be unconnected with the hard times we are presently experiencing that leave no room for choice. But the men had forgotten that they even spend more on these girls than they do on their families. But there are even some women who have, in relations for what their husbands do. Taken to chasing other men too.
The language of friendship between any man and woman today is money. Hardly can a man stay with girl from morning to evening without hearing one complain or the other which all boil down to money.
There is a trick our girls use these days that our married women may want know about most of the ‘oga’ prefers bridging their girl friends into their offices and such would pretend waiting to see ‘oga” for serious very business matters but on entering the office, they (girls) would take a corner seat. Then, no one can actually determine what her relationship is with the oga.
For too long now they have cases of who have some men subjected their families to severe hunger by not proving food for the family yet they would go about dishing out money to their girlfriends out the family. And the girls are always determined to eat, drink and wear the “best of every good thing’ leaving the man with smiles on his face and pride instead of being ashamed.
Let us pause and think a while. You will agree with me that girls , especially those that have made up their minds not to marry but to continued to suck the man that comes their way, are planning wars to overthrow the women and bring every woman to useless position like their own. They can be very nasty. They can easily grab you by the collar of your shirt and before you know it. You are in pool of blood from broken bottles. While the women folk are struggling to make sure that they are recognized in the scheme of things in our society, they have totally forgotten that when its comes to families issues. They fare the weakest set of human beings anyone can think of at least for those of them who practice these sorts of atrocities. Any woman who sells herself for a living is abusing the dignity and integrity of man, devoid of any sentiments, the bone of contention is unruly behaviors of our girls to married colleagues.
There is no justification or pride in girl confidently going out with another woman’s husband or the pride on a man abandoning his family for some other woman. In a nutshell, the girls are today ceaselessly struggling and struggling to distract the attention of men away from families. And they seem to be winning.