I love you.

[Annoying MSN Person]

I love you.

Just say it every day. To anyone who matters.

I thought Father would be ok. He's always been such a strong man. The highest point in the world was on his shoulders and he was always there and he knew the answers, if I ever bothered to ask.

They diagnosed him with terminal liver cancer today. There's nothing they can do. He doesn't have more than a couple of months.

And I have been the worst excuse for a daughter. How he has put up with this shit of mine, I don't know.

I just don't know. Who is going to answer my questions now?

it's hard to look at that and know it's real. took an hour after I saw him for me to even cry, but I can't stop now.

Please, this father's day. Just hug him, and hope he doesn't wince. For those of you who have already lost one, I know there's nothing I can say. words don't touch anything. hugs,peace and aroha to you all.

[Benaire]

Hang in there babe.

[Expert Insomniac]

I'm really sorry to hear this. What terrible news. There are no words adequate enough to express the compassion I feel for you.

If it helps at all, my friend's mom was diagnosed with ovarian cancer, and told she only had a few months. She ended up hanging in there for nine more years. Not provide false hope or anything... the important thing is just to make the most out of the time you have left. You may feel you didn't express your love deeply enough before, but now, here's your chance.

And don't beat yourself up for being a horrible daughter. You obviously care about him. Although I don't know why you think you were so hard on him, so I can't comment on the validity, you do care for him. That's the most important part. Don't punish yourself for whatever may have happened in the past; just concentrate on the future. You have enough to deal with without putting yourself down.

[Trump]

Take advantage of the now. You don't know what will happen (good or bad) so just make sure no matter what happens you will have no regrets. I wish you and your father the best.

[Jay]

I love you too, Helen.

I love those people who are good to me, because they deserve my love.

If I can find the international call service thing I'll send you a call. :)

[Jormungand]

keep on keepin on man

[CNagy]

i luv u Santa Clause

You're a real prick, seriously.


Bubbles, I'm sorry to hear about your father. You have my sympathy.
Jay, it's probably easier to use an internet program like Skype. It's free and all it requires are speakers and a mic of some sort.

[Jay]

Jay, it's probably easier to use an internet program like Skype. It's free and all it requires are speakers and a mic of some sort.

Yeah, I got skype. I don't have a microphone though. ;) Yet

i luv u Santa Clause

Dude, what the FUCK!

It's cancer. Fucking CANCER. Don't joke around about that shit.

My aunt has cancer, and that's just fucking offensive. Edit your post, please.

[Deadhead]

I had a strong urge to bring all my daddy issues into this thread, but then I realized that would be emo, and Emo is wrong.

Anyways, Um.... Im not very good at these things (being the cynical bitter asshole that I am) but... hang in there.

[Kaziel]

*hugs Bubbles* My thoughts and well wishes are with you.

[Jay]

(being the cynical bitter asshole that I am)

Yeah, me too. But even if it is a forum and I can't do anything about it, I still say the usual condolences, and sorries, and all, and mean it.

People who just don't give a rat's arsehole don't deserve to live.

[Kass]

i luv u Santa Clause

That really isn't very nice. A little tact goes a long way.


bubbles, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Cherish the time you have left.

[Myrsilus]

I'm sorry this has happened to you and your family, Bubbles. I know what you mean, though... You really start to believe that you have taken everything for granted when such events occur. But please do not worry about that now. Spend time with your father and cherish the last days you have with him.

Be strong not just for your sake, but also your father's.

[Firefly]

Bubbles,

I saw you post this in mIRC yesterday, and it was very scary >_< I think it was me, and Ender who saw it. And we were hoping you were joking, because cancer is not a happy thing >_<

You're a funny girl and I enjoy your posts and chat comments. Keep your head up and I hope everything works out.

[Loc]

Sorry to hear that Bubbles, if you wanna talk about it, just gimme an IM on msn.

[Mushu]

im not very good at these kind of stuff but You have my sympathy.

[Shamu]

So sorry to hear *hugs*. You and your family are in my prayers.

[Rogue_7]

Use the time you have left to build as many great memories as possible. That way both of you can 'accentuate the positive' so to speak. Remember that we are all pulling for you, I'd think its at least a little heartining to have the crazies of OP9 behind you!

[hahaman]

hey isn't this tread about saying i love u to everyone that matters
santa clause matters to me so u guys shouldn't flame me for staying on topic

besides santa clause is really old u might never know when he will die

[Marblehead]

Buck up, kid! Just make sure he knows how much you love him. That'll be more than enough.

[Myrsilus]

You're technically right I guess... But that doesn't mean it isn't inappropriate when she is expressing she is grieving. I'm not going to try to lecture you or argue with you, because this isn't the place for that. I would also hope no one else tries to start something. Just try to be a little more serious and acknowledge that loving Santa Claus is not really appropriate at the moment.

And yeah Bubbles, we are all here for you. I'm willing to talk anytime you may need someone to share your thoughts with.

[Mishka]

it's hard to look at that and know it's real. took an hour after I saw him for me to even cry, but I can't stop now.


You were probably in shock, and that is completely understandable. Tears can be your body's way of saying what you don't know how to say verbally. And as much as it hurts, you obviously need to cry right now. Don't stop the tears if they are determined to come. They are nothing to be ashamed about right now. Just have a big box of kleenex near by and let it all out bubbles.

As far as answering questions, ask as many as you can think of right now.
Just make sure you take care of yourself. Our thoughts are with you.

[l337m45t3r]

You were probably in shock, and that is completely understandable. Tears can be your body's way of saying what you don't know how to say verbally. And as much as it hurts, you obviously need to cry right now. Don't stop the tears if they are determined to come. They are nothing to be ashamed about right now. Just have a big box of kleenex near by and let it all out bubbles.

As far as answering questions, ask as many as you can think of right now.
Just make sure you take care of yourself. Our thoughts are with you.

I agree 100%

Let them flow, they'll stop when it's time.

Bubbles, you have my sincerest condolences. :(

[Dead Sexy Vocab]

There's a saying that I follow, which it goes, "Run straight down the path without taking notice of the bumps," which basically means "Live a life with no regrets"....

You should go by that, too.

My heart goes out towards you and your father.

Take care.

:)