Mastiker
10-07-2005, 11:40 PM
Actually, dating can be a lot of fun, but only if you're in a relationship you want to be in. For instance, me and my ex-girlfriend Laurel are no longer going out. No big deal on my part, considering I wanted out for some time now. (some time being a week) And I am. So all is good.
Sort of.
See, a couple days ago, I more or less flipped out on Laurel because I thought she didn't talk enough. (For those of you who didn't get my subtlety, I was calling her boring. Boring like stale ham.) Well, today Laurel says "well...you were saying that we don't really know each other that well so i was thinking maybe we should start off being friends first and then see where things go."
What.... the.... fuck....
First of all, I never really wanted to go out with Laurel. She was somewhat hot, and I hadn't gotten any attention that way in a while, so I went for it. Really, all that meant was me entertaining her for a little bit by hanging out with her, and possibly making out. But, it would be understood that by me not asking her out, we weren't going out. Her friends decided otherwise. Oh, and Laurel didn't want to go out with me. She wanted to go out with Chris.
Me and Laurel do the 'cute couple' thing and we go out. I figure its nothing, seeing as how no one else seems interested in me at this point. Well, when I was dating Laurel, apparently lot's of people noticed me. Yay. After a week or so, I realize that she's boring. Really boring. I don't even want to go into how boring she was right now. But I thought it was honestly, because me and her have nothing in common. Then again, neither do me and my friend Chris, and we get along fine.
Laurel is different. See, with Chris, and most other people for that matter, they talk to me. Somewhat. We can reconcile our differences, and through my one special talent on this god given earth, I can make a conversation from nothing. However, the other person needs to be willing to talk. Laurel never talked. She did, but it was usually like "oh yeah well this person and this person that you don't know and it was funny, but only for me because I know them."
Noooo... boyfriends do not want to hear those type of conversations. Hell, most people don't want to hear those type of conversations.
Anyways, on to last night. She decides she has something to tell me. After a fifteen minute conversation... well...
Memelolola: well we got to talk
crackfiend489:im guessin its not good
Memelolola: we just have to talk
crackfiend489: oh sooo its not somethin bad?
Memelolola: well kinda'
crackfiend489: wellll its either bad or not
Memelolola: we have to take as in not we need to talk more in the other way
what is this girl talkin about?
crackfiend489: ...im sooo confused
crackfiend489: so we need to talk more?
Memelolola: no i saying that i said we need to take meaning is not that we need to talk more but the other way
Memelolola: talk*
crackfiend489: we need to talk more the other way... whaaat does that mean?
Memelolola: we just need to talk by me telling u somthing
crackfiend489: ...why didn't you say that? okay tell me
Memelolola: well ill tellu tomarow cuz cant tell u online or on the phone
dude? nooot cool.
crackfiend489: tell me now... you can't just bring it up and then not say anything
crackfiend489: im a big boy, i can deal with it
fifteen minutes pass by
Memelolola: well...you were saying that we don't really know each other that well so i was thinking maybe we should start off being friends first and then see where things go
WHOA?! this is so bad? what i FUCKING TOLD YOU TWO DAYS AGO? THIS is what got me worked up??!?!? THIS is what took her fifteen minutes to say?!?
now, i typed in the following:
crackfiend489: what the hell are you saying? that all relationships start between friends? no, no I believe you are illusioned. you see, part of being a friend is that you are a friend. once you become my friend, thats it. game over sista. a lot of time, guess what? people just date. once they start dating, then they learn about that person. not before hand, because then they are just friends. so, if you want to be friends, then we are over.
what i sent to her:
crackfiend489:...okay... hope you realize that means we're not going out.
Memelolola: but I thought maybe we could try going out if we got to know each other.
crackfiend489: nope. sorry, but i don't think we can work.
after a few more sentances I told her that me and her will probably have an awkward friendship, and some more unnecessary sentances, and then that's it.
today, i find out that she's showing above conversation to her friends and talking shit about me (which is the reason for this thread a "revenge" of sorts) so yeah. I'm rightfully pissed. Especially considering how hard she wanted to be friends. :rolleyes:
Sort of.
See, a couple days ago, I more or less flipped out on Laurel because I thought she didn't talk enough. (For those of you who didn't get my subtlety, I was calling her boring. Boring like stale ham.) Well, today Laurel says "well...you were saying that we don't really know each other that well so i was thinking maybe we should start off being friends first and then see where things go."
What.... the.... fuck....
First of all, I never really wanted to go out with Laurel. She was somewhat hot, and I hadn't gotten any attention that way in a while, so I went for it. Really, all that meant was me entertaining her for a little bit by hanging out with her, and possibly making out. But, it would be understood that by me not asking her out, we weren't going out. Her friends decided otherwise. Oh, and Laurel didn't want to go out with me. She wanted to go out with Chris.
Me and Laurel do the 'cute couple' thing and we go out. I figure its nothing, seeing as how no one else seems interested in me at this point. Well, when I was dating Laurel, apparently lot's of people noticed me. Yay. After a week or so, I realize that she's boring. Really boring. I don't even want to go into how boring she was right now. But I thought it was honestly, because me and her have nothing in common. Then again, neither do me and my friend Chris, and we get along fine.
Laurel is different. See, with Chris, and most other people for that matter, they talk to me. Somewhat. We can reconcile our differences, and through my one special talent on this god given earth, I can make a conversation from nothing. However, the other person needs to be willing to talk. Laurel never talked. She did, but it was usually like "oh yeah well this person and this person that you don't know and it was funny, but only for me because I know them."
Noooo... boyfriends do not want to hear those type of conversations. Hell, most people don't want to hear those type of conversations.
Anyways, on to last night. She decides she has something to tell me. After a fifteen minute conversation... well...
Memelolola: well we got to talk
crackfiend489:im guessin its not good
Memelolola: we just have to talk
crackfiend489: oh sooo its not somethin bad?
Memelolola: well kinda'
crackfiend489: wellll its either bad or not
Memelolola: we have to take as in not we need to talk more in the other way
what is this girl talkin about?
crackfiend489: ...im sooo confused
crackfiend489: so we need to talk more?
Memelolola: no i saying that i said we need to take meaning is not that we need to talk more but the other way
Memelolola: talk*
crackfiend489: we need to talk more the other way... whaaat does that mean?
Memelolola: we just need to talk by me telling u somthing
crackfiend489: ...why didn't you say that? okay tell me
Memelolola: well ill tellu tomarow cuz cant tell u online or on the phone
dude? nooot cool.
crackfiend489: tell me now... you can't just bring it up and then not say anything
crackfiend489: im a big boy, i can deal with it
fifteen minutes pass by
Memelolola: well...you were saying that we don't really know each other that well so i was thinking maybe we should start off being friends first and then see where things go
WHOA?! this is so bad? what i FUCKING TOLD YOU TWO DAYS AGO? THIS is what got me worked up??!?!? THIS is what took her fifteen minutes to say?!?
now, i typed in the following:
crackfiend489: what the hell are you saying? that all relationships start between friends? no, no I believe you are illusioned. you see, part of being a friend is that you are a friend. once you become my friend, thats it. game over sista. a lot of time, guess what? people just date. once they start dating, then they learn about that person. not before hand, because then they are just friends. so, if you want to be friends, then we are over.
what i sent to her:
crackfiend489:...okay... hope you realize that means we're not going out.
Memelolola: but I thought maybe we could try going out if we got to know each other.
crackfiend489: nope. sorry, but i don't think we can work.
after a few more sentances I told her that me and her will probably have an awkward friendship, and some more unnecessary sentances, and then that's it.
today, i find out that she's showing above conversation to her friends and talking shit about me (which is the reason for this thread a "revenge" of sorts) so yeah. I'm rightfully pissed. Especially considering how hard she wanted to be friends. :rolleyes: