You ever just feel alone?

[Sock Full of Boiled Dimes]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:

[Loc]

*has stopped trying*
Eh I can empathise with you, everyone has bad days.

[Sardaukar]

All the time.

[Stephy]

Everyone feels like that at one time or another, and it does suck. I really hope your day gets better.

[Jiant Flying Panda]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:

Emo mode...... Activated!

Seriously though.

Everyone has those days so yeah..... Lighten up it'll pass through without you even realising it :).

[Stephy]

You know, it is best to speak to someone you are close to when feeling like this. It will help. Or if you don't want to talk with someone, just write down what you're feeling. It could make you feel better, I think?

And for the heck of it, if you really need to tell someone how you feel, I have nothing better to do. I am a good listener. :)

[Quartermaster]

Just the opposite, but not because it's true.

[Firefly]

Not the way you put it, but, I do have those "Unattractive" days, where I feel ugly. For example, messy hair, a cowlick, no clothes, etc. x.x;

[Shamu]

Number 17, you are a very cute guy!
But I know how you feel and when I feel like that, I turn on some happy music (I highly suggest Jem "Wish I" or Morcheeba "Love Sweet Love") get down to your skivies and dance around your room like a drunkin sorority girl (that's what I'm doing right now, because I let my 3 year old do my hair and it looks really bad, but I don't care because Sugababes, Jem, and Gorillaz are playing)! In otherwords, screw everyone else and be alittle crazy! :D
*Hugs* I hope you have a better day tomorrow!

[more cheerios]

Everything changes after highschool. (:

[RDClip]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:
Every single day of my entire life

[Nekesu]

someone has been watching Densha Otoko (well, maybe just me)

[Jynx_lucky_j]

I'll do you one better and say that ontop of that i often feel that every freindship i have is supperficail or a one way friendship. Even though i have these "friends" i still often feel like i'm alone. The only reason that i keep them is with out them i would always be alone.

[ArkAngel]

Number 17, you are a very cute guy!
But I know how you feel and when I feel like that, I turn on some happy music (I highly suggest Jem "Wish I" or Morcheeba "Love Sweet Love") get down to your skivies and dance around your room like a drunkin sorority girl (that's what I'm doing right now, because I let my 3 year old do my hair and it looks really bad, but I don't care because Sugababes, Jem, and Gorillaz are playing)! In otherwords, screw everyone else and be alittle crazy! :D
*Hugs* I hope you have a better day tomorrow!


OMG gorrilaz yes... I love you and "Fire coming out of the monkey's head"

But if I danced in my skivies, 1. I'd get awfully chafed and second I'd have to explain to my brother why i was wearing skivies and/or dancing in just them.

[Shamu]

OMG gorrilaz yes... I love you and "Fire coming out of the monkey's head"

But if I danced in my skivies, 1. I'd get awfully chafed and second I'd have to explain to my brother why i was wearing skivies and/or dancing in just them.
Pfft! Who cares?! You don't even have to get down to your underwear, just dance around!
It really can do wonders for your mood! Everyone has bad days once in a while, but it's how you deal with it that can make the difference. I'm not saying that dancing around in your underwear to sugary pop music is going to make you feel better, but it helps me! Meditation also helps quite a bit, but it's not nearly as fun and sometimes forgetting that the world is a scarey, serious place is a good thing to do!
Remember that there will be someone who thinks you're special, maybe not today or even tomorrow, but someday. So when you have one of those days when you feel like no one thinks you're sexy or attractive, go look in a mirror, turn on the music, and go crazy :D !
(oh yeah, Gorillaz rulz!)

[Sock Full of Boiled Dimes]

I decided to do the Shamu way and dance in my skiviys. At first I felt good, but nothing felt right.

So I put on some women skiviys and started dancing and then I just felt silly.

Then I danced in the nude, but my dogs just kept looking at me.

So then I decided to wear all yellow and my neighbors complained to me that big bird had the music up too loud.

What a day :D

[bUs]

i got two suggestions that will surely make your day (one way or the other).

1) Get shamu to dance for us.

2) Get Jay to dance for us.

:D

[Anubis Nine]

more cheerios said that everything changes after highschool. It's what I've heard and what I'm holding out for.

Overall when I get really down I listen to progressive music with a fast and upbeat tempo (Lyrics are an after thought) and try real hard not to dwell on things.

*Pets*

[Lateli]

I feel alone and overlooked all the time.

I might be lonely sometimes, but I also know it's not my loss..

(I'm exceptionally good at being alone, or waiting.. :p)

[NERD]

.......we need an OP9 conference just for anyone at or below high school level and have a massive job fair/counselling/day at Disney World.

[Arkan]

Coffee lots of it.

I've found out when i have coffee, I have three urges.

1) I'm hyper and want to listen to techno

2) I've very very horny.

3) For some reason I'm happy, the world is at peace, and everything is just right. Folgers is doing something great with their coffe :eek:

[Godon]

I just cover it with sleep, art, and writing. I've writen a lot of short stories and found they help somewhat. Idk if anything really helps for me much though, I don't have anything to compair to. Never had a close girlfriend or anything yet.

[keitaidensha]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:

no, because i am super pimp. instead i have days where i feel like it's just too much and the novelty of girls has worn off.

[Shamu]

I decided to do the Shamu way and dance in my skiviys. At first I felt good, but nothing felt right.

So I put on some women skiviys and started dancing and then I just felt silly.

Then I danced in the nude, but my dogs just kept looking at me.

So then I decided to wear all yellow and my neighbors complained to me that big bird had the music up too loud.

What a day :D
Well, dang it all! You're just not doing it right then! I'll have to show you ;) !
Lateli, next time I drive home to the midwest, I'm swingin' by your house and taking you out! We might have to pick up a few other people on the way, but it'll be fun times! :D
bUs, let's get Jay to dance!
Anibus, life changes alot after high school, it doesn't necessarily get easier, just different. But it's all good!

[Myrsilus]

Sometimes I can feel pretty sexy, but of course sometimes I feel like crap. I don't have much confidence in myself.

Still, most of the time I don't really care. I'm not in a rush to meet a gal.

[Stephy]

bUs, let's get Jay to dance!

Haha. I'd pay to see that. :p


Yes, dancing always make me feel better. Go on and strut your stuff in front of a mirrior. Sing in the shower. Bounce on your bed. Do fun and silly stuff. It works for me... though I still tend to act younger for my age. I do really hope you feel better though, number17.

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

If anything, I find you attractive.

[keitaidensha]

Sometimes I can feel pretty sexy, but of course sometimes I feel like crap. I don't have much confidence in myself.

Still, most of the time I don't really care. I'm not in a rush to meet a gal.

when you have no confidence it just makes you want to curl into a ball.

[Myrsilus]

when you have no confidence it just makes you want to curl into a ball.
And roll. =\

Yeah if I have a bad day, I'll just pop in some Katamari goodness.

Really though, I try not to worry about that stuff so much. It'll happen when it happens. I am trying harder to be a nicer guy, too.

[akitaka]

The whole confidence issue seems to be the key point in most of the times. Personally I don't feel any rush, either. In real life it's kind of hard for me to talk to girls; not in the nervous sense, but in simple converstation. Maybe it's just around here, I'm not sure. I suck at jokes, for starters.

When people look intentionally to "find love" often it's a lot easier to run into another heartbreak, since you're using selfish desire to feel content. It really better to let things flow, I think.

[Jon885]

i thought it was funny that your avatar was similiar to the content of your post.

no i don't think about such things.

[keitaidensha]

i thought it was funny that your avatar was similiar to the content of your post.

no i don't think about such things.

you only post in lowercase letters.

you also make frequent use of the return key.

this cramping of my style will not go unchallenged.

PISTOLS AT DAWN

http://www.kcl.ac.uk/college/history/images/duel_456.jpg

[Jon885]

I'll work on that.

[Idlethought]

The whole confidence issue seems to be the key point in most of the times. Personally I don't feel any rush, either. In real life it's kind of hard for me to talk to girls; not in the nervous sense, but in simple converstation. Maybe it's just around here, I'm not sure. I suck at jokes, for starters.

I'm EXACTLY the same way

[Sock Full of Boiled Dimes]

Well the thing is that I ended up slipping into thought yesterday in the middle of college and this is how the topic got made.

I was a bit depressed for the moment because all my friends were gone and what I really want is a friend. I slipped to talking to people online more just so I can actually have a social interaction with people other than my sister and her boyfriend whom I living with.

I also started to look back on my sucesses and failures in dating and the failures seem to outweigh the sucesses.

Just recently I met a girl who was cute, but that failed before it went anywhere big.

This seems to happen to me A LOT! I have no idea what I'm doing wrong. I'm not doing any of the classic date failures and I am attempting not to do anything stupid. Then again maybe I just wasn't what they were looking for.

AND THAT SUCKS!

Being led on then only to be shot down is worse then being rejected for a date or a girl walking up and calling you uglier than sin. You are left sitting there wondering what went wrong for so long that it'll put you in a down mood for a while.

I hate this. I instantly feel like something is going up and I feel oh so happier than before because someone is interested in me. I start looking at the good things in life and how cool everything is. Then instantly everything is crap again because I can take a hint very well.

And if its a long string of couincidences that the girls just don't want to be with a guy at the moment then fate can shove it.

Tell me if I am doing anything wrong.

I meet a girl by either initiating the conversation or she'll do it. Mostly the girls because I'm a shy bugger sometimes. When we do talk I am instantly confidant and make jokes and talk with her a bit. I get her number or we agree to a date and things are set. Well I wait a few days to call her when I get the number, but generally the girls are the ones who call first. Go on a date and I ask her about herself mostly and I really just want to know a lot about her to get interested and keeping myself barely in the conversation. Things go great and I get a good night kiss.

Of course it doesn't go past that and sometimes it doesn't even get to a date. Rinse and repeat to the next girl. Everything happened the same way that the last date I had I was expecting it to happen. Not only did it happen, but she slept with some guy the day after out date and told me about it.

That was cold.

The only date I had that was different was a date I went on with this 20 year old girl. When I met her at this place she BROUGHT SOME FRIENDS! :mad: To counteract that I called up my cousin to come along because I didn't want to be stuck with a bunch a girls.

To make the story short she ran off with my cousin.

I am so turned off by dating right now.

[LJustus]

Dude, I have been where you are. It is completely natural to feel this way, but as you experience more, you will come to realize that every failed relationship is an opportunity to learn about yourself and how you interact with others and react to situations.

Keep this in mind - Every (romantic) relationship you have in life WILL end. Most of them end badly - except maybe one, if you're lucky. Some end quickly. Some don't. Don't get all twisted when they do end.

College is a time to NOT be tied down to one person. College is a time to find out what you like and what kind of person you are compatible with. College is a time for experimentation and discovery. Don't worry if things end with a chick after one date. That just means you'll get to take a different chick out next time.

On that note. . . Don't take chicks out. Don't offer to take them out. Offer to meet them somewhere. Or hang out somewhere. This way, there is not so much "date" pressure. The atmosphere is more relaxed, and you can actually get to know the person without having all of the pressure of a "date". If the first few times you hang out go well, then ask the chick of she'd like to go out. This way, you'll have a common set of experiences to draw upon. You'll have things to talk about.

Your cousin is an ass. Don't let his actions dissuade you from social interaction. He apparently has no respect for you or your feelings. As such, you should not invite him along when you are hanging out in mixed company.

Get some friends who are girls. Study groups are great for this. Even if the girls in your study groups are 'taken', once they get to know you (and see what a cool guy you are), they will keep you in mind for their single friends.

Above all, have fun.

[Trump]

You have dates? I'm jealous!

[bUs]

bUs, let's get Jay to dance!

*cue music*

we're waiting jay... :p

[keitaidensha]

chicks dig whining.

EDIT: :rolleyes:

be confident. it doesn't matter if you don't feel confident, are anxious, have a bunch of things weighing down on you--just be confident. better yet, change your outlook. don't walk into a social situation looking to get a date out of it. instead, just enjoy the conversation and things will work out on their own.

[God Hates You]

Yes, all the time. But usually instead of being gloomy and miserable, I amuse myself with other things.

Anyways Sarduakar... Dune kick ass doesn't it?

[Dead Sexy Vocab]

I don't believe in long-lasting love when you have a girl/boyfriend in high school, and that's what I believe in. Even if it's the girl of your dreams, you know it wouldn't last long because you're either just too young, or you just like her because of her looks ("love at first sight" is just plain stupid, it always becomes a shallow topic).

If that's what you're asking for, then yeah.

Don't.

[Marie]

Sound advice? Stop looking. The day you give up and swear off women, it sends off a reverse-psycology radar, and the ladies'll be flocking to you like you're goin' outta style.

How do I know? That's how I met my boyfriend! :p

[Ceirnian]

Sound advice? Stop looking. The day you give up and swear off women, it sends off a reverse-psycology radar, and the ladies'll be flocking to you like you're goin' outta style.

How do I know? That's how I met my boyfriend! :p

That's it right there, just stop looking and let things flow naturally.

[Collapse]

I always feel alone. Although the concept of not having a special someone right now is bothering me at the most, I felt that I should really stop caring, or stop worrying having not one.

My time will come for me. But now, I don't really give a damn. If something happens, I'll live in it.

[keitaidensha]

I always feel alone. Although the concept of not having a special someone right now is bothering me at the most, I felt that I should really stop caring, or stop worrying having not one.

My time will come for me. But now, I don't really give a damn. If something happens, I'll live in it.

buy love hina 1-14.

read them while listening to the album "The Trial of the Century" by French Kicks on repeat.

you'll feel worse, i guarantee it ;)

[Dead Sexy Vocab]

buy love hina 1-14.

Ah, the best anime that has man-with-countless-female shenanigans. *sighs.*

I love it when Keitaro gets knocked out into the stratosphere. :D

[keitaidensha]

Ah, the best anime that has man-with-countless-female shenanigans. *sighs.*

I love it when Keitaro gets knocked out into the stratosphere. :D

1) manga

2) ranma 1/2 > love hina

you also seem to have singled out the most irritating part of the manga as your favorite. i am impressed.

[Daeus]

You shape your own reality.

Most people do not find self-criticism / depression / etc. to be attractive (obviously). If you can get past the unnecessary stress of such (or whatever it is exactly), I'm sure you'll realize your self-worth. After that, what does it matter if others don't find you to be attractive.

However, if moods were that easy to control / realize and true self-awareness were more common, there would be significantly fewer numbers of "messed up, unhappy, :mad: , :( , :confused: individuals" out there (although who am I to judge).

And just to stay on topic, yes I have had similar days, as I'm sure all people do at some point in their lives whether they choose to acknowledge it or not.

(and we're all really alone until/if we manage to link consciousness, but that's besides the point)

[Jay]

Sound advice? Stop looking. The day you give up and swear off women, it sends off a reverse-psycology radar, and the ladies'll be flocking to you like you're goin' outta style.

How do I know? That's how I met my boyfriend! :p

Great advice! :D I'm not looking for anyone right now and I'm having an easier time finding women now than I would if I WAS looking.

Go figure, huh? ;)

[OliveButtercup]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:

SometimesI have those days..When I am, I slap myself and remember all of the people who love me.

[Raoine]

You ever have one of those days where you feel like no matter how hard you try or what you do you seem to fail at attracting the opposite sex to you?

You ever have one of those days where you feel alone and look at it as if no one has ever loved you or even liked you?

You ever just feel completely and utterly unattractive and just feel like you should stop trying??

I'm having one of these days :mad:
Er... I am going to answer your actual thread question rather than everything that you ask in your actual post. Yes, I feel alone always. :3

[Bruti]

Yeah, sometimes I end up feeling lonely. Then I either crack open a can of beer, make myself a coffee (repeated as necessary), call some friends for a chat, to meet them in person, or start writing. Either way, these moments don't last long.

And yeah, I have those days when looking into a mirror equals psychological self-torture. But, sooner or later I reach the breaking point when I say to myself "You just love being miserable, don't you? Well, you had your share of wrong fun, so stop. I mean, right now. Or I'll go and fetch another cup of coffee for you. The kind that can be used to break kindergarteners' spirit."

Sometimes being alone is not that horrible. The question is, what can you make of this free time? Most of these times, I can make myself useful, or at least proceed with the things I wanted to do.

Anyway, why is it that me not giving a crap works like an electromagnet to the "total nutcase" category females? (The "Well, how to say this nicely... go away. Use your legs wisely." type.)

My two cents, wheee.

Bye,
Bruti

[Darkblade]

stop looking. Its when you arent looking that you tend to find.

[Idlethought]

Bruti i agree with you on most of your points except that when i look in the mirror i like the way i look. i constantly make funny faces and shiat like that so i laugh at that.

but yea when im feelin in a certain..funk..i write it down in this notebook i bought from waldenbooks, 08/04. in fact im currently on my 60th page of just thoughts and crap.

[yogi]

stop looking. Its when you arent looking that you tend to find.

but then you miss all the signals.. well I do.